Relationship Tips: "Dos When Arguing"
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Celebrate your victories.
This doesn’t mean celebrating a victory for you or a victory for your partner. But after an argument or a fight, if you’ve genuinely resolved something or if you’ve learned something about each other, then that’s a victory for the relationship. So congratulate yourselves. This will be good for the relationship and encourage both of you to handle your conflict well in the future.
The Dos and Don'ts of Fighting Fair
The "Dos" of fighting fair. DO.... (click each
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- talk about little problems before they turn into big ones. Stick to the subject.
- listen actively.
- use "I" statements.
- admit fault.
The "Don'ts" of fighting fair. DON'T.... (click each to read more)
- bring up past grievances.
- go for the jugular.
- tell your partner how they should think or feel.
- intimidate.
- over generalize.
- force the matter when you're tired.
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