Dating Tips: Resolving Disagreements
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Don't go for the jugular.
This is a basic when it comes to fighting fair. All of us can get caught up in the moment and aim for a weak spot where we know can cause maximum pain. But in a relationship built on support and trust, it’s crucial that you resist this urge, even when you’re at your angriest. There’s nothing at all wrong with being upset and showing it. It’s even OK to sometimes yell about your feelings. But stick to the facts of the argument. When you move to personal attacks, you’ve crossed a line.
The Dos and Don'ts of Fighting Fair
The "Dos" of fighting fair. DO.... (click each
to read more)
- talk about little problems before they turn into big ones. Stick to the subject.
- listen actively.
- use "I" statements.
- admit fault.
- celebrate your victories.
The "Don'ts" of fighting fair. DON'T.... (click each to read more)
- bring up past grievances.
- tell your partner how they should think or feel.
- intimidate.
- over generalize.
- force the matter when you're tired.
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