Dating "Dos" When Arguments Occur
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Use "I" statements.
Instead of saying “You should have called me if you were going to be out so late,” say “I feel nervous when it gets late and I haven’t heard from you.” “I” statements — in which you begin with phrases like “I feel” or “I’m afraid when” — are less judgmental and much more effective than the more accusatory “you” statements.
The Dos and Don'ts of Fighting Fair
The "Dos" of fighting fair. DO.... (click each
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- talk about little problems before they turn into big ones. Stick to the subject.
- listen actively.
- admit fault.
- celebrate your victories.
The "Don'ts" of fighting fair. DON'T.... (click each to read more)
- bring up past grievances.
- go for the jugular.
- tell your partner how they should think or feel.
- intimidate.
- over generalize.
- force the matter when you're tired.
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