Dating Tips: Really listen to your partner
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Do... listen actively.
This means showing your partner, both verbally and nonverbally, that you’re really listening. Make eye contact and nod to show that you’re hearing what’s being said. Then, when you respond, use phrases like “So you’re saying that you’re mad because I …” or “Your point is that I shouldn’t have …” Reflecting back like this can be one of the best ways to defuse an argument, if you can just show your partner that he or she is being heard and understood.
The Dos and Don'ts of Fighting Fair
The "Dos" of fighting fair. DO.... (click each
to read more)
- talk about little problems before they turn into big ones. Stick to the subject.
- use "I" statements.
- admit fault.
- celebrate your victories.
The "Don'ts" of fighting fair. DON'T.... (click each to read more)
- bring up past grievances.
- go for the jugular.
- tell your partner how they should think or feel.
- intimidate.
- over generalize.
- force the matter when you're tired.
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